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Our subject in March is all to do with Children's Birthdays. To send in your tips about birthdays - it could be anything from ideas for cheap birthday cards, to party games to a fab birthday cake recipe - email tips@mumandworking.co.uk.


Children's Birthdays!

Recycle and Re-use!
Drawing I always keep the birthday cards the girls are given and cut out the numbers and 'Happy Birthday' printed writing. When we need a birthday card for a children's party the girls home-make one using the numbers and Happy Birthday messages - adding their own drawing and glitter! The cards have the personal touch, are cheap and environmentally friendly!
Rachel - Mum to Minnie (5) and Dolly (2)
Birthday Breakfast
Birthday We make birthdays special with the 'Birthday Breakfast' - I decorate and colour in a paper plate with the my children's new age in the middle and tie balloons on to their chair and put their presents on the table in front of them. Its only a little thing, but the children love their 'magic breakfast plate' and its become a family tradition!

Sue - Mum to Tina (13), Ben (10) and Ryan (5)
Don't give in to pressure!
I used to live in London, and had a lovely group of friends I had made through the NCT. However when our children were starting to celebrate their 3rd birthdays I knew I was succumbing to the pressure of 'competitive Mum syndrome!'...unknowingly the parties were becoming some sort of challenge between us to have the best! I realised this when I found my self hand-painting home-made treasure map invitations (complete with authentic tea-bag aging and burnt edges!). It got silly..so my best tip is remember who the party is for - your kids - and that what most children enjoy doing is running around in a big hall getting sweaty (boys) or dressing up as fairies or princesses (girls) - stereotypes I know, but true!

Fiona - Mum to Sarah (9) and Tom (7)
Ice Cream Cakes
Ice Cream Cakes A great idea for a special treat at parties. Take an ice cream cone and fill it with some melted chocolate. Firmly push a fairy cake onto the top of the cone. (you may need to put a bit of the melted chocolate around the rim to help it stick) Then cover it with either some chocolate or butter icing (you can colour the butter icing to make it look like different colour ice cream). You can then put different decorations and sprinkles on. Put an ice cream wafer in and there you go. Ice cream cakes without the ice cream. They are fun, make a change from the usual party treats and the kids love them. They are a bit difficult to store though. I use a cardboard box and pierce a load of holes in the up-turned box and slot them all in.

Emma - Mum to Maya (4)
Party bags
I try to keep expense down when making party bags - I put in photocopied colouring sheets (or you can download them for free online and print them out - the CBeebies website has good ones for little children), I buy a big tub of sweets at our local cash and carry and buy a big pack of felt tips and split them between the party bags. I add a balloon and a piece of cake and thats plenty!

Teresa - Mum to Rochelle (5)
Personalised Invitations
Birthday I tend to make my own party invitations on my home pc, and I include a fun photo of my daughter on the invitation....So many mums have commented how useful this is, because as parents dropping off at a private nursery, we don't always know which child is which - and besides there are 3 children named "Alex" in my daughters class!!

Robyn - Mum to Tayla Jade (5) and Alex Jasmyn (3)
Digital Thank You!
I make my own thank you cards to family and friends who have given a birthday presents to our children. I design a card within a word document and type in the thank you and acknowledging the actual present that has been give. The I cut and paste a photo/s from the birthday boy which has been downloaded onto our computer via our digital camera.
Sue - Mum to Josh (2) and Alex (almost 1)
Budding Fashion Designers!
We recently hosted a "paint your own t-shirt" 4th birthday party - all the children were given a plain white t-shirt and we had fabric paints, glitter glue, and transfers for decoration. The children all got stuck in and seemed to love it!

Melanie

Sail away on a Jelly Boat!
Drawing I made "Jelly boats" at my daughters party and they just disappeared! You need 12 oranges and 1 pack of jelly, Half the oranges and either scoop out the insides or juice them, till you just have the skin, place these in a muffin tin to hold them steady, then make up the jelly and pour into each half skin. Leave them over night in the fridge to set and when your ready half them into a boat shape, you can decorate them by cutting out small triangles of coloured paper and making sales out of them, using small straws for the masts.

Lorna - Mum to Bethany, Jessica (4) and Nicholas (2)
Planning is the key!
TOP TIP! The trick with birthdays is to plan in advance, even 2-3 months before, so you can save money, get the best deal and plan an excellent day. I never hold the party on the actual day, as that day is usually spent rushing getting everything ready and the birthday child often feels ignored.

If you choose a theme, everything usually falls into place from decorations to food. My son's recent party was a transport theme. We made hot air balloons with string and a coloured paper cup stuck to the ceiling, and printed out aeroplanes on coloured paper to hang from the ceiling. We made black and white flags for a racing car decoration and each child had an individualised license plate (printed from our computer). Among other dishes, we made traffic light biscuits with red, yellow and green icing, a race track home-made cake and pinwheel sandwiches.



Mangla mum to Premjyot (3)
Yummy Sweets
I've just discovered this recipe for the loveliest sweets - ideal for birthday parties, OR putting in pinatas or party bags when wrapped in foil - but you do need a spare half hour although it's totally worth it!......

Butter Gumballs: (Makes approx. 24 sweets)

Ingredients:

  • 1 tin condensed milk
  • 2 tbspn golden syrup
  • 2 tbspn demerera sugar
  • 30g butter
(obviously not for those on a diet, but the kids'll love them!)

Method:

1) Put all the ingredients in a medium-sized heavy-bottomed saucepan and stir over a low heat until it turns a beautiful toffee colour. (This is why you need the time) This will take about 25-30 mins and it's important to stir for the whole time, otherwise the bottom of the mixture will burn!

2) Cover a couple of baking trays (or 1 large normal tray) with non-stick baking parchment and, using 2 teaspoons, put teaspoon-sized blobs of the mixture onto the parchment, spaced well apart.

NOW THE KIDS CAN HELP

3) When the blobs are completely cold, shape them into balls with your hands...... (if the shape doesn't hold, you need to cook it some more, so it's back into the pan for more heating and stirring! Then repeat step 2).......and decorate with whatever you like, or leave them plain.

4) To use at parties, or in pinatas or party bags, wrap the sweets in foil like a Christmas cracker!

Yum yum !!!! (This recipe was from Roald Dahl's Revolting Recipes - Butter Gumballs are mentioned in The Giraffe, The Pelly and Me)

I hope you enjoy making - and scoffing - these fabulous tasty treats....they're well worth the time taken, I promise!



Angela - Mum to Sam (8), Thomas (2) and third baby on the way!

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